Take pen and paper and draws up a list of those qualities that you really dislike a person. If I’m not kidding! The things that you don’t like a person’s are as important or more than those that you like. Of course everyone must yield in certain aspects here and there, but if we discard to those who possess those aspects that really bother us since the beginning, we will avoid starting a relationship with very little chance of success. It is here where you should pay attention. Many people falls into a serious mistake when he is courting a possible couple. Put the best arrangement and best behaviour – which of course is very positive-, but tends to conform too much to what the other person expects, this is certainly not so positive.
The point that is often forgotten is that we are not planning a dinner or an exit to dance with the person we are trying to impress, assumes that we are looking for someone with whom to share the rest of our lives. So remember not to accommodate you and adjust to everything that the other person intends only for the fact impress or simply falling well. Leverages to discover not only what you like in the other person, also keep an eye on those things that you really dislike and not support. And if at some point you have the crazy idea that you can change in the future what do not like today in a person, forget it. From the moment that you try to mold someone to your liking or fit a person beyond their own habits, whatever they may be, you will become a sort of nightmare and probably in the long run the success will not be that your waiting, still achieving your goal. It doesn’t work this way. Get a clear idea of these qualities and habits that you really dislike and stay away from those people, at least at the moment of choosing partner. Do not fall into the trap of wanting to seem very tolerant and downplaying a habit that really dislike you or you will live the rest of your life between reproaches.
As well, once you have clear all this, you’ll be in a better condition to make a correct choice. And considering the large number of people there should outside, don’t worry or get anxious, fearing that that person never appeared. He or she are there, waiting for someone like you and if your’re doing things well, surely you will have success. There are some people who think that everything is predestined. That is written with whom your te casaras and at the end, what need to happen, happen. Not what is. But be so or not, the process of finding your ideal partner no doubt can be accelerated with the help of internet and your willingness to make it reality. Also you have the possibility to let fate take its course. Nature has powerful secrets. There is great chemistry involved in the selection of a partner. Give a hand to nature, but also let her us a hand to us.